That you had to live in the hood? That you had to mangle the English language? That you thought you were better than everyone else because you dared to strive for more than a dime above rent money?
How many times have you heard of a black person that did well going back into their community and the people there belittled him saying he thought he was better than them? I find this funny, not funny ha ha but funny in a sad way. We applaud when someone black is extraordinary but not when they are excellent. What if Michael Jordan had decided that he wanted to be a Math Professor since his degree is in math? What if he’d done really well and created a foundation and gave back to the community. How many people would have begrudged him because he was in a manner of speaking excellent instead of extraordinary? How many would have questioned whether he thought he was better than them? How many would have said “we don’t need charity from this uppity N*****? You know you’ve heard it and God forbid you may have even said it. When I was a kid, my mother referred to people that had this mindset as “crabs in a barrel” always wanting to pull one another down. What is it about that person that makes you want them to fail other than the color of their skin?
We seem to get excited when people do what we feel we cannot but in order for them to get there, they had to be excellent first. How can we get to the Micheal Jordans, the Williams Sisters & the President Obamas without first being excellent. Doesn’t excellence have to come before extraordinary?
We seem ready to embrace ignorance, poverty and self hatred more readily than find a more positive alternative. I have often wondered what Dr. King would think of all his hard work in the new millineum of black America. I wonder what Fredrick Douglas would think? Mary McLeod Bethune? There are times when I feel the pioneers worked for nothing. We put more emphasis on athletic prowess than we do on a real education. If Michael Jordan had in fact become a math professor, we would think much less of him even if he were earning the same income. Why is that? There are people that literally died so that we could get a great education yet, being smart in our community generally speaking is looked upon now as a detriment not a benefit. Then we have the audacity when we are called out on it. Bill Cosby took a lot of heat for saying what many of us that are tired of the slave mentality were thinking but either had not the guts or the public platform to put it out there.
I am both disenchanted and hopeful if that is possible, that the generations to come will realize that this is destructive and will lead to a different type of slavery. I hope that our young people will come to realize that an education is a more prized possession than a new Lexus and your education cannot be repossessed. The barriers are coming down at a tremendous rate, WE HAVE A BLACK PRESIDENT! So don’t tell me what can’t be accomplished, don’t tell me you don’t have a chance to do and be what you want. Don’t give me excuses. Being black should mean more to America than rap music, high performing athletes and crime.
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